Memorial Day: It’s not about the barbecue

May 28, 2007 — Today we Americans observe Memorial Day.

It differs from most other major holidays, in that it isn’t a celebration, but, rather, a solemn day set aside to remember those who have paid the ultimate price in the performance of their patriotic duties.

One way to mark this day is to perform a patriotic or community service — like participating in a public memorial ceremony, writing a letter to a servicemember, donating blood, dropping some canned goods off at a food bank, or cleaning up a local park.

Being responsible citizens is a healthy way to demonstrate patriotism, the principle of the Fourth Degree, and it’s a fitting tribute to those who have sacrificed their lives to guarantee our freedom.

Be sure to fly your flag, too. Yes, it is just a piece of cloth — but in the same way that a picture of your mother is just a piece of paper, or your grandfather’s remains are just ashes, or your child’s kindergarten craft project is just a piece of clay with a handprint on it. The flag is a reminder — a memorial — just as a grave stone and a crucifix are. It’s a symbol and an artifact that should be handled with respect.

If you are barbecuing or vacationing over the long weekend, be sure to also include a visit to a cemetery, or a moment of silence, or some other act of dedication to the memory of those who have died in the service of their country. Too many have given too much for us not to care.

— Editor